Monday, January 18, 2016

Too Comfortable

I have a question for you, do you ever feel like you've become too comfortable with how things are going in your life? Don't get me wrong, being comfortable is good. . . just not when you know you can accomplish something more. This is how I feel right now, I'm scared to quit my job because I have become too comfortable. Even though it's time to move up and look for something better and get a great experience that will benefit my future career, I choose to stay. Why? well I ask myself that same question, everyday I look up other jobs to apply for and yet I never actually hit the "APPLY" button.

I think when a person gets too comfortable in their situation, it's never a good thing whether its in their career, relationships, and life. All those aspects die down after awhile when you get too comfortable with whats happening, you have to move from your bubble and challenge yourself. 

If you're not happy with your job, QUIT! Look for something better and that you'll truly love. Or if you're in a job that you love but somehow things get predictable, apply for a higher position. Don't just settle for what you already know, go for what will make you better and improve in that.

It's easy to get comfortable in a relationship especially if you've been together for awhile. To be comfortable in a relationship can be both a good thing and a bad thing. However when the two of you gets comfortable in a sense where you don't even excite each other, is bad. Both of you have to think outside the box; look for a different restaurant to eat in, go on a road trip, or maybe even have a spontaneous date and just think of something to do in that moment. Don't let your relationship die down.

Oh life, sometimes life gets boring and everything becomes predictable. Well, do something you don't normally do. It can be the simplest thing to the most outrageous, like for example; if you've never watched a movie by yourself, go watch one by yourself!! Or if you've never been out to dinner buy yourself, go to a fancy restaurant and treat yourself!!! Or you can be super adventurous and go on a trip out of the country/state by yourself and while you're at it go sky diving, skinny dipping, hitch hike! I Don't Know!!!! 

Those were all my thoughts this morning, may all of this help someone!



  1. I think realizing you're getting too comfortable and maybe "in a rut" is the first step to making some exciting changes!

    Via Sora

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